Miss SugarCookie

Tag: parenting

  • 2021-07-02 Wait a Day and the Forecast Will Change

    2021-07-02 Wait a Day and the Forecast Will Change

    In case anyone is playing along, I did not let the snafu with my ex go. I sent a follow up text pointing out that he literally contradicted his own “advice” to our son by ignoring my text message. And of course I couldn’t help but throw in that I don’t agree with him and…

  • 2021-07-01 The One To My Ex About Actions and Consequences

    2021-07-01 The One To My Ex About Actions and Consequences

    To admit you feel as though you want revenge is to admit to being human. That’s my excuse. I’m human and therefore flawed in all the miraculous ways human beings are. It’s a miracle that we are here at all— stranded on this spiral arm of stars.  I’m flawed for feeling as though I’m enjoying…

  • 2021-06-28 Loneliness

    2021-06-28 Loneliness

    Today’s poem of the day from the Paris Review is about loneliness. Today’s heartache is not knowing how to help my daughter navigate her loneliness.  It’s a staunch truth that though we may be surrounded by people—home, work, school— we can still be suffering from loneliness. A longing to be with our person or persons.…

  • 2021-05-09 A Very Shrug-Worthy Sunday

    2021-05-09 A Very Shrug-Worthy Sunday

    All I want for Mother’s Day is to spend the day with my kids. I was going to add not doing dishes but I don’t even care about that. I just want to have a chill day with my people. I’ve texted my son who is at his dad’s house but he probably won’t be…

  • 2021-05-07 On This Day in History… 🤱

    2021-05-07 On This Day in History… 🤱

    Seventeen years ago, at this very moment, I was gettin busy pushing a baby out my vagina. That’s pretty freaking amazing right? That I can grow a human being inside my body and then birth it into the world in a matter of hours.  More amazing than that is the mystical act of parenting. That…

  • 2021-03-26 The light at the end of the tunnel…

    2021-03-26 The light at the end of the tunnel…

    My mom is being discharged from the hospital today. Who gets to deal with getting her home, grocery shopping, fetching a walker, and staying with her at her home to make sure she’s ok and not at risk for falling down or ripping her stitches, ostomy, or drain tubes?  That would be yours truly.  She’s…

  • 2021-03-14 Designated Daughter

    2021-03-14 Designated Daughter

    The saying “Hurry up and wait” is often attributed to the military but I think is also quite appropriate for the hospitals and medical care. Nothing like waiting around all day for something to happen or change and being disappointed because nothing happens. And why is it that the waiting and nothing is also somehow…

  • 2021-03-05 Prepping for a Celebratory Weekend 🎁🎉🎂🎉❤️

    2021-03-05 Prepping for a Celebratory Weekend 🎁🎉🎂🎉❤️

    It was a good run.. a 33 day streak of posting to this blog. And the day before yesterday I was gonna lose my step streak and declared “no way in hell I’m losing my blogging streak.” Guess I forgot to knock on some wood and the Universe said “that’s ehat you think.” What DID…