Category: dating

  • 2018-02-05 Choosing the Bright Side

    I’m ready and waiting for another great week! I did a fair amount of ranting last week, but, you know it’s all just temporary. All of it. Life itself is temporary and too short to not be loving it. One can choose to linger with the devil and his details or let go and embrace…

  • 2018-02-03 New Music Saturday

    It’s Saturday morning and I’ve got new Taylor Swift in my ear. Her music isn’t for everyone of course, but I’m pretty convinced she wrote a few singles on this one just for me. The album “Reputation” is very tri-polar. 1/3 is drama fueled by her constant battle with some of what has transpired because…

  • 2018-01-26 Just Another Post About Relationships

    Yes.. again. I’ve apparently been condemned to a life of never ending questions about relationships and not a lot of answers. Where does one start? I’ll start with the state of starting over. A friend of mine said to me one time that if he and his wife were ever to part ways, for whatever…

  • 2018-01-20 Dreams and Unresolved Feelings

    Welcome to Saturday. In truth, it’s a day for me like any other. It’s gym time first followed by a writing workshop downtown and then I’m going to try and get a little more time in on a work document. My life is so exciting. One thing good that comes from such a boring existence…

  • 2018-01-12 The Importance Of Definitions

    Picture if you will, that you dated a person for about 6 months and in that time had high hopes for a future together. Imagine that somewhere along the way you started falling out of love with the idea of building a life with that person. Then, after some amount of self reflection, and coming…

  • 2018-01-07 Schrödinger’s Cat as it Applies to Relationships

    The original paradox comes, of course, from a suggested experiment to prove some theory of quantum mechanics. It’s goal is to prove something about suspended states of particles in some process of decay where we don’t know if they have decayed or not until some observation of the decay can be made. The question at…

  • 2017-12-28 You’re Just Not That Into Me

    I’ve been contemplating what to say to the guy I’ve been “dating” for five months now. I’ve been thinking about it for a few weeks. I even wrote a poem about it (don’t worry, I’ll keep that shit to myself). Severing ties, even the loose ones, can be tricky. I did it with Adam, but…

  • 2017-12-27 That’s So Meta

    While I was dating Matt, he never seemed that interested in my writing. When I met him I already had my first two blogs. One was the original WordPress site which is still active today and houses all my “public worthy” creative writing. The second was my somewhat hidden tumblr account which was intended for…